I get this question a lot, and the simple question is – you can’t! The only way to make a woman fall in love with you is if there is an interest there in the first place. At least a friendship and common ground. Once you have established that, then these tips will help her fall head over heels for you and your amazing self!
This one is a no-brainer. Women need a man who is confident in who he is and his ability to provide and care for a family. Not needing approval or validation through other people (especially other women) is a very attractive trait. It’s something you can’t fake either, so if you have some insecurities it’s best to work on them as best you can before trying to land the woman of your dreams.
Be Passionate About Your Goals and Hobbies
Men who have their own lives and hobbies and are passionate about them, give off a vibe that they are fine with or without a woman. No-one wants someone who expects them to be their everything and not be their own person. If you show passion for projects and your work, you show her that you are self sufficient and you have the ability to care for yourself. Striving for and kicking your goals is sexy and inspiring no matter what sex you are!
Be Affectionate (and know when it’s too much)
I personally need constant affection and touching to feel loved. Some women don’t need much of it. You need to gauge what level of affection she needs, and give it to her. Be playful, sneak up behind her and wrap your arms around her waist and kiss her neck….we love that. *chills*. Give her sincere compliments, but don’t overdo it because we can smell a suck-up a mile away!
Find Ways To Make Her Life Easier
Women often put wayyy too much on their plates. Parenting, working, shopping, cleaning, counselling etc you name it, she’s doing it! Finding little ways to help her out will not go unnoticed. In fact, this is worth more to a woman than any gifts or flowers. Do her gardening for her, cook a meal or offer to run an errand for her – and expect nothing in return. This will show her that you care and that you’re not selfish. Women love to be cared for as they are usually the carers.
Women need to know they can depend on their partners to not let them down. Always be on time, always do what you say you’re going to do and if you have to cancel plans – do it as soon as possible and ask to reschedule.
It sounds shallow, but the way a man dresses can 100% make or break the potential for a relationship. First impressions really do last. It would be nice if people didn’t judge people on the way they dress, but unfortunately that is reality! Go to a stylist or check the latest department stores and ask one of the sales people to help you choose some outfits. I have personally not dated someone because of their shoe choice (the chemistry wasn’t there either obviously, but the shoes were just too much!). I’ve always said I can tell a lot about a man by his shoes, and I haven’t been wrong so far lol.
Personal hygiene is also a given, bad teeth and BO is never going to land you a girl. Unless she is into that. I actually love my husbands natural man-scent – but I digress..
Don’t Try and Force Intimacy (but give it a go)
Don’t be preoccupied with sleeping with her right away. Show her that you want to get to know her before jumping in the sack. Save the sexting or dirty talk for when she has given you clear signals that she’s into it such as light touching of your arm, flicking of hair, lingering looks and lots of blinking. You will know when it’s going to progress to sex, let her take the lead and respond to her. (Then when you are sure, take her like the alpha man-beast you are!) There is nothing more off putting than a guy who tries to force sex convos straight up, like a leering creep who can’t keep it in his pants. If you make no moves though, she might think that a) she’s not sexy enough or b) there’s something wrong with you. So don’t be desperately seeking sex, but show her you’re interested without being a creep. Simple, right? 🙂
Taking note of all these points will help you to keep the woman you are interested in. To make a woman fall in love with you, you have to be confident, secure, reliable and well…. not creepy.
If you want to go a step further, I’ve created a PDF guide on how to make a woman orgasm (Yeah, I totally did), so if you’re interested in that, chuck your email address in the form below. I will be sending out information about that very soon.
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